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Married Male for over 30 yrs.

Some of you don't think I tried communicating a million times with my low libido wife !!!!!!!!!!

She doesn't put the blame on anything, never has.  She has never once , ever, ever, told me why she won't have sex with me.  Never once gave an explanation, just simply said no.   End of story.  No conversation about it AT. All.  She agreed to go to a sex therapist with me years ago.  First time there and the Therapists realized she needed some extra attention.  She went one time solo and then refused to ever go back.

I come here to vent.  Others come here to vent.  Leave us poor SOBs alone and let us vent.  Many of you have NO fricken idea how hard it is on us.  Some of us need to vent or "whine" as you say.  Many of us are not going to divorce our SO over lack of sex only.  If there were other things going on, then yes, I would divorce her.  Meanwhile, please let me vent.[/quote]

Go jerk off and stop whining.  It's so goddam unattractive, maybe that's why she won't fuck you.[/quote]

Says somebody who doesn't like sex.[/quote]

Whatever you have to say to rationalize... [/quote]

Huh? You make no sense. Anybody who likes sex would never tell somebody whose spouse is rejecting them sexually to stop whining and go masturbate. Only people who don't like sex will think and sex between two people is unimportant.[/quote]

Not the PP you are responding to but like, this entire exchange is stupid. I like sex but can think of scenarios where I would not be into it and if my DH threw a tantrum about it I would feel like he should stop whining and go take care of it himself. You can not want to have sex for a given period of time AND still like sex. Humans are complicated, which is why these conversations are so annoying and reductive. You make it JUST about sex when its almost always about more than sex.

I continually wonder how you people would respond if you were paralyzed or something but your low libido spouse stood by you and loved and cared for you even though sex was no longer part of the equation. Or how you would handle it if it was reversed and they physically were just unable to provide that to you. Would you walk away because they couldn't put out enough?[/quote]

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