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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You went off birth control for three weeks and you insisted on having sex, despite agreeing not to have children? I'd be resentful as well.

Did you bother telling DH you were off birth control for those three weeks?[/quote]

You were not taking bc pills and your DH, who knew he never wanted to have kids continued to have sex with you?

He's responsible too - if he knew.[/quote]

She had already said that she did not tell him that she was not taking her pills. Whether they should have done a permanent form of BC is irrelevant. At this point in time, she agreed to take the pill, and she didn't do it.

As I stated earlier, my DH and I agreed that our form of BC is the pill. If I decide to stop taking it and don't tell him, he isn't at fault. And it is callous as hell to say that he had a choice to tell her to abort. He was duped by his wife, and has the right to say so, and the right to say that she and the situation sucks. Parenting is hard as someone who wanted kids, so I am surecthatvitvis even moreso for someone who didn't want kids.

All that said - the early years are HARD. This could be a blip on your marriage radar, or this could be the beginning of the end. You NEED counseling. I would go so far as to say you both need individual counseling as well as marriage counseling.[/quote]

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