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The OP hasn't heard from her date, apparently -- which is telling us all we need to know: first day sex often means one-night stand. [/quote]

Keep trying. [/quote]

I don't need to "try."

Sex too soon undermines relationships. Not 100 percent of the time, but pretty darn often.

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so, this leads us to the conclusion that if she had waited they would have had a solid relationship with this person based on respect? 
Someone who sleeps with you on the first date and passes judgement and doesn't call again is so worth having, OP should have waited? I think that is what people are trying to say, be yourself do what you want there are people out there who will respect you no matter what and they are the ones worth having.[/quote]

Bingo. People need to stop playing games and just say what they mean.  Those are the kinds of people I dated--some started off with sex early, some were slow simmers, but the one thing they all had in common: They were honest, sincere people and not "game players."  I really have no time for that.  Unrequited interest and love is disappointing and often even hurtful, but I never regret not "catching" someone by following some arbitrary set of rules.[/quote]

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