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[quote=Anonymous]Oh my goodness, this would totally bother me! I adore my SIL, but her mother and brother would seriously ruin a trip like this for me. I get long with them fine, but that's because I am always at my brother and SIL's house when I see them. It's not my house, not my holiday, so of course I'm gracious as can be. But on the family vacation for our side of the family? Uh no. I wouldn't invite my in-laws to tag along, so I expect my brother to follow suit. That said. OP, you needed to say this upfront and told your brother how you didn't want the dynamic to shift so drastically. You didn't communicate well, and now it's done. I'd work on making peace with the fact that they're coming and try to focus on how happy this will make you SIL. [/quote]
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