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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm confused.  If your sister was buried - if she has a literal grave that you can go to and actually see and touch her tomb stone - why do you think that she is still alive? [/quote]

This--what makes you think they would have all of this, a funeral, a tomb everything if she had lived? OP, let it go. I'm sorry your sister died and you never knew her. [/quote]

Exactly!  Why the hell would they have a grave for her if she wasn't dead?  And, as far as transporting her out of state, she was likely cremated.  Even the cremated remains of an adult fit easily into a carry on.  [/quote]

Again, if she did live, I do NOT think my parents know! I do NOT believe they gave her up.

[b]I know my parents quite well[/b]. They would not have had her cremated. They would not have transported her themselves (certainly not in a carry on bag!). they would not have held an actual funeral - it would have been a private burial. [b]I never even knew that she had a grave site [/b]until a couple of years ago when I came across a picture of it. [/quote]

You don't know your parents as well as you think because extreme grief is transforming. You don't know how they reacted, you just know who they became.

Listen to yourself OP. Stillbirths happen to all kinds of people. But in your effort to deny that it happened to your mother, you've constructed a story where your sibling was stolen without their knowledge and the hospital provided a fake baby for them to bury.  It all pivots on the off chance that your parents never saw the baby after it was born.

I think you really need to think here about 1. what happens to your family if you pursue this, regardless of what you find and 2. what benefit would come from pursuing this. [/quote]

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