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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hey OP, what did you do that she has to get over? Why doesn't she trust you? If you can't admit it here, anonymously, then you're probably not dealing with the issues totally honestly with her, either. It's on you, right?

I've gone through this kind of thing with my husband. He struggled and had to come to terms with the strong possibility that even if he did everything and anything to win me back, for all that, he had no guarantees and couldn't control how I felt or what I did.

And you know what, he told me that no matter what, he was determined to show his love, to do right, to make things up to me, to be transparent and be trustworthy, and to finally treat me with all the love and care I had always deserved. It's still hard for me, but I see him working at it, and so long as he keeps consistently doing it, I will give it time and an open mind. For as long as it takes. [/quote]

Why don't you cut him a break and open up to his love rather than drag this shit out. [/quote]

Your comment is selfish and ignorant. Do you also tell critically injured people to walk it off and snap out of it? Healing and building trust is a process that takes time. I was trying to give the OP a sense of how it might feel for his wife, if he's done things that destroyed her trust and that they have to work through. It takes time and work. [/quote]

Total bullshit. It takes active love to stay married. I bet if she hit it off with a co worker she would be blowing him on the second outing. It's bullshit like this that women pull that makes me wish I were gay. Guys would be like hey you hurt my feelings for s long time. Oh. You're sorry?  You're making demonstrable efforts to improve and we have a ten year history with beautiful children and an otherwise great family life?  Let's fuck.

If the couple is so critically injured just fucking get divorced already than drag this shit out. People can make themselves happy or not. It's s choice. [/quote]

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