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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you speaking her Love Language? Read Gary Chapman's book. You might be expressing your love in a way that she doesn't receive. And if you just change the way you send love, thing might get better.

See if you can take a John Gottman weekend seminar. Check with the Gottman Institute web site for local weekends or go to the main campus in Seattle. If you can't do that, read a John Gottman book.

From him I've learned you need to have 5:1 good:bad ratio to have a good marriage. It sounds like you withdrew too much from the love bank and haven't put enough back in. So now it's time. The good things you do don't have to be big gestures. Simple things like thanking the other person for taking out the trash or doing the dishes, hug in the hallway when you pass by each other. Little things like that really do wonders.

I would also try a Gratitude journal that you let her 'accidentally' find. So every day, write 3-5 things you are grateful for. Make 2-3 of them be about things she does or the way she is that you are grateful for. Maybe if she knows you are paying attention, she will start to open up her heart.  [/quote]

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Yeah. Good luck with that all, especially dishonestly leaving open a fake "Gratitude Journal." Way to go. That's the way to open up a new chapter in your lives!

(Or learning the correct love language from the love bank.)
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