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[quote=Anonymous]First, I agree with everyone at the beginning: if you have been exposed, just take them, they are totally not a big deal.  You do not want to wind up ping-ponging the infection back and forth between you and your partner, or accidentally giving it to a new partner because you're asymptomatic but are infected...which brings me to what I think your real question is:

My partner came to me about an STD and since I don't have one, she must've cheated on me and gotten one; what does DCUM think?

I am a guy, who had a kind of fling with a woman I worked with on a short term volunteer project, just before she left town at the end of the project. This was also a couple of weeks before I met a new, serious girlfriend.  Sure enough, the fling had chlamydia - completely asymptomatic, had no idea.  I didn't start to have symptoms until almost two months afterwards.  My (then) new GF was already, partly for professional reasons and also for baggage reasons, very suspicious, and telling her to go get tested truly sucked.  I actually think it kind of damaged the whole relationship at the outset and we were never able to arrive at a place of trust.

The point of this is: yep, it could be your GF is cheating on you, and it could be she's telling the truth and had no idea she had chlamydia.  You have to just make up your mind to trust her or not - there's no 'proof' out there.  If you think you can't do that, just go ahead and dump her now.  Don't stumble along making both of you miserable hoping that somehow she'll eventually "prove it to you" that your suspicions are groundless.  I guarantee that won't work.[/quote]

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