Anonymous
04/17/2015 10:43
Subject: So my girlfriend wants me to take meds for chlamydia
I think it is hard to detect, so she could have had it all this time.
As a woman, when I go in for my annual, if I am having bareback with my BF, no matter how long our relationship, I'll run a full spectrum of tests. Just to be sure.
As a woman, when I go in for my annual, if I am having bareback with my BF, no matter how long our relationship, I'll run a full spectrum of tests. Just to be sure.
Anonymous
04/17/2015 09:15
Subject: So my girlfriend wants me to take meds for chlamydia
Seinfeld episode. Jerry's girlfriend told him that a previous boyfriend told her she got syphilis from sitting on a tractor in her bathing suit.
Anonymous
04/17/2015 09:15
Subject: So my girlfriend wants me to take meds for chlamydia
First, I agree with everyone at the beginning: if you have been exposed, just take them, they are totally not a big deal. You do not want to wind up ping-ponging the infection back and forth between you and your partner, or accidentally giving it to a new partner because you're asymptomatic but are infected...which brings me to what I think your real question is:
My partner came to me about an STD and since I don't have one, she must've cheated on me and gotten one; what does DCUM think?
I am a guy, who had a kind of fling with a woman I worked with on a short term volunteer project, just before she left town at the end of the project. This was also a couple of weeks before I met a new, serious girlfriend. Sure enough, the fling had chlamydia - completely asymptomatic, had no idea. I didn't start to have symptoms until almost two months afterwards. My (then) new GF was already, partly for professional reasons and also for baggage reasons, very suspicious, and telling her to go get tested truly sucked. I actually think it kind of damaged the whole relationship at the outset and we were never able to arrive at a place of trust.
The point of this is: yep, it could be your GF is cheating on you, and it could be she's telling the truth and had no idea she had chlamydia. You have to just make up your mind to trust her or not - there's no 'proof' out there. If you think you can't do that, just go ahead and dump her now. Don't stumble along making both of you miserable hoping that somehow she'll eventually "prove it to you" that your suspicions are groundless. I guarantee that won't work.
My partner came to me about an STD and since I don't have one, she must've cheated on me and gotten one; what does DCUM think?
I am a guy, who had a kind of fling with a woman I worked with on a short term volunteer project, just before she left town at the end of the project. This was also a couple of weeks before I met a new, serious girlfriend. Sure enough, the fling had chlamydia - completely asymptomatic, had no idea. I didn't start to have symptoms until almost two months afterwards. My (then) new GF was already, partly for professional reasons and also for baggage reasons, very suspicious, and telling her to go get tested truly sucked. I actually think it kind of damaged the whole relationship at the outset and we were never able to arrive at a place of trust.
The point of this is: yep, it could be your GF is cheating on you, and it could be she's telling the truth and had no idea she had chlamydia. You have to just make up your mind to trust her or not - there's no 'proof' out there. If you think you can't do that, just go ahead and dump her now. Don't stumble along making both of you miserable hoping that somehow she'll eventually "prove it to you" that your suspicions are groundless. I guarantee that won't work.
dcguy
04/17/2015 09:06
Subject: So my girlfriend wants me to take meds for chlamydia
Anonymous wrote:I'm op. Hand job references are a troll
I'm glad the HJ reference is just a troll. But still, probably a good reminder for all you ladies out there to wash up thoroughly after giving a handie. I think you're supposed to use soap and warm water and sing happy birthday.
Anonymous
04/17/2015 08:44
Subject: So my girlfriend wants me to take meds for chlamydia
I'm op. Hand job references are a troll
Anonymous
04/17/2015 07:15
Subject: So my girlfriend wants me to take meds for chlamydia
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:She confessed, said she only gave a handjob. Is that possible?
No. What grown woman is just going I give a man a handjob? What grown man is going to accept that? Unless there was no opportunity (ie, they were at a bar or in a party) I doubt anything stopped at a handjob.
She said it was just a handjob, then she touched herself. That's how she caught it. I believe her.[/quote
Okay, you've proved you're a troll. And if your actually a woman trying to figure out how to tell your BF about chlamydia, don't use the handjob excuse - he'll never buy it.
If you're real, OP, she f-ed the guy. And even if she did give him a handjob, that's enough to call it quits.
Anonymous
04/17/2015 07:00
Subject: So my girlfriend wants me to take meds for chlamydia
Anonymous wrote:She confessed, said she only gave a handjob. Is that possible?
TRICKLE. TRUTH.
She sure as fuck didn't just give a handjob. And she didn't just accidentally touch her self and spread it to other parts.
You'll eventually find out more. This is turning more and more into that "tractor story" as we speak.
Anonymous
04/17/2015 03:11
Subject: So my girlfriend wants me to take meds for chlamydia
I'm not sure who is OP and who is trolling and posting as him anymore but here goes. Chlamydia can exist untreated without symptoms for months or longer in a woman. Unless she was tested for it after her last sex partner, but prior to sleeping with you, and you were also tested after your last sex partner, but prior to sleeping with her, unless you were a virgin (thus negating the 'past sex partner' option, and even then I'm not sure of the risks with oral) you have no idea whether she gave it to you, or you gave it to her. It's even possible you both had it from other partners when you got together.