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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Still do not understand the other woman's motivation.  Why contact someone with news that is going to cause enormous problems for someone?  Sounds like a jilted lover.[/quote]

Maybe she thought OP deserved to know?[/quote]
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I would want to know. I hate the people who are trying to turn this into a competition between OP and the other woman- there was no competition; neither knew the other existed. I'm sure that woman was hurt but it doesn't make her sinister and it doesn't mean she shouldn't be believed. What if OP found out about all of this later, after she was pregnant, would that be better? Right now the OP has knowledge and she has a choice and I would be thanking the woman for opening my eyes.
OP, I do hope you will pick one friend or family member to confide in. Someone objective and nonjudgmental that can be a sounding board to you and support you in whatever decision you make. I know it seems impossible right now but you will get through this! Best to you.[/quote]

+1.  As the cheated upon person, I also would want to know.  I am now in the position of having stumbled over evidence that my now exDH cheated on his new fiancé.  I'm sure she has no idea. Part of me wants to tell her because I would have wanted someone to tell me.  Part of me knows that whatever I say will be put off as "jealousy".   The latter is definitely not true I feel sorry for her rather than jealous.

In any case, the other woman's motivation doesn't matter, because it turned out that what she told you is true?

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