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[quote=Anonymous]To try and determine if your concern about him possibly being a pathological liar is warranted, do you think you need to engage with the OW at all to try and determine how we portrayed his feelings/intentions/plans/limits with her when they were seeing one another? She says she wasn't aware of you but was he allowing her to think that they were exclusive? Did she think she was in a full-fledged relationship with him? I think having a little insight about the lengths he went to to live a double life would help you understand how ingrained this character flaw is. Here's the thing...the guy is now in his 40s. I'm guessing that he does think he's done with all that nonsense...at least for now. If he's in a high pressure career where he is respected, etc. I'm sure getting the cute wife a decade younger than he is is probably the next right step for him in his career/life/life trajectory. And while I'm sure (sorta) that he's sincere in his claims of loving you and wanting this all to work out, dont' kid yourself...he's equally worried about the embarrassment and humiliation that a divorce would mean for him. So his intentions to keep it altogether might not be 100% driven by a desire to keep the love of his life at his side. I hope that's the case, but I'm guessing it's more complicated than that for him too. I'm sorry. [/quote]

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