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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just another internet stranger chiming in to say that I'm sorry for you OP.  The internet (and DCUM) is not normally a kind place -- but the responses that you're getting on this thread are telling.  I wish I could give you a hug and a way out :(

All of the examples you've given are not examples of cluelessness, but they are examples of punishment and spite.   It is like your husband hates you (or women?).  Helping each other is what humans -- and especially spouses -- do.

Honestly, the car seat story didn't get me as much as the story of your boots and then your follow up reference to driving yourself to the hospital (WTF?!?!) and carrying your own bag while in labor.  [b]Even a stranger would help you with these things[/b] ...[/quote]

This.  Strangers are kinder to others than your husband is to you.  When I was pregnant, total strangers offered me seats and helped me carry heavy things.  Your husband is not clueless, he is mean and selfish.  I don't care if there is "positive"; for me, it would not outweigh the fact that the person who supposedly promised to love me treats me poorly on purpose.  [/quote]

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