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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. you sound like you could benefit from counseling. You made a bad decision marrying this man. Divorce is not the solution (yet) because he will continue to treat you this way, set a bad example for the kids and worst of all you will pick another one just like him. 
Funny when i read your post it reminded me a little bit of a thousand splendid suns! Your husband does not cherish you, he is unkind to you and seems to resent you. My ex husband was like this, so I understand the dynamic and the coping. Maybe i am projecting because of my own experience - but i cannot help it, it is so hard to hear of someone else living this way. A few counseling sessions and a long period of self-reflection helped me realize how I got where i was. Now i am with a man who adores me and I am hooked on a healthy, functional relationship :) but it has been a very long road. Please Op, go back and retrace your steps - why was this man attractive to you in the first place? Do you feel you don't deserve to be cherished? Why? Please find a counselor to help you through this. The idea of you spending your life with this man is depressing to strangers on the Internet - doesn't that tell you something?![/quote]

Print out what you've told us here and take it to your therapist.

Please.  For your sake, for the sake of your children.  This is not how they should see family life.  Better divorce than this.[/quote]

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