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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree.

The other woman does not know the wife personally therefore she does not technically "owe" her anything. Respect, integrity, etc.

That is the responsibility of the husband in these types of situations.

The primary reason wives get so mad at the other women is because they have a lot of bottled up anger/emotion that they need to express, + would like to impose it all on their philandering husbands.

But if they are choosing to take the husbands back and work on the marriage, it would be counterproductive to lash out at him.

So they tend to lash out at the other woman and thus, blame her. She becomes an easy scapegoat simply by default.

(Not saying she is innocent by any means.)[/quote]

This is the most fucked up thing I have ever read.  Whether I know someone or not, we have social codes in civilized society.  Worldviews like yours are why our society is increasingly selfish and narcissistic.

How about this?  [b]Why don't you look that woman's children in the eyes and tell them why you decided to fuck their dad without having the integrity to insist that he confront his wife so that you could build a relationship with him based on something other than lies?[/b]  There's nothing virtuous or blameless about lying and cheating.  [/quote]
I suggest you leave your kids out of this. You can continue use sex as currency, but your children are human beings. Please spare them your messed up reality. They will sort things out when they grow up.[/quote]

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