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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can you get DH to write her a letter outlining the rules? That might make it more concrete.

"Larla,
As you and I have previously discussed, [b]I am asking you to stop dropping by my house.[/b] [b]If you wish to spend time with Billy, please do so during your visitation days and not on the days I have him or, alternatively, make plans to meet at anothe, with my permissionpermission[/b]. I also think it's important for us to focus on getting Billy to get organized about what he needs when and not depend on your or I to fetch his left-behind belongings on a daily basis. I will speak to Billy about this and that neither of us will be able to swing by either of our houses to collect his stuff.  I appreciate your help on both of these matters. -- Jim."[/quote]

Reasonable letter, but doesn't it sound like the mom is also coming over to visit and hang out when she doesn't have physical custody?  Like, the kids are already home and their mom just decides to drop by and make herself a sandwich and hang out with them?  That's the impression I got...[/quote]

Well then I would add the above bolded. [/quote]

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