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Reply to "Do I have an obligation to tell my sister what her DH said?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I can't believe PPs who told OP to mind her own business and not tell her own sister. You tell your sister calmly and matter of factly what her husband said. In private. Perhaps she already knows. Perhaps she knows he's crazy, or liable to say things while drunk. Perhaps she already has a plan. Perhaps she's going to be surprised and hate you (temporarily). But your duty is to tell her. None of this was in confidence, and if it was, his confidence is seriously misplaced. [/quote] The guy is being ABUSED. If the genders were reversed you'd be calling for his testicles.[/quote] Absolutely not. If my brother was mean to his wife, and she told me she planned on leaving him, I would say "good for you" and tell my brother as well, in a "see what you did" kind of way. They are going to divorce anyway, and both have to get their ducks in a row. I would refuse to be put in a position of "secret-holder" - it's very damaging. [/quote]
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