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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm so sorry.  This does sound neglectful and if you feel that it's borderline abusive, based on his past history, I would listen to that instinct.

If he cannot provide you with the emotional love and support that is so fundamental to a marriage then I would seriously consider seeing a therapist on your own and also divorce. I am guessing he will not change and you need to find someone who doesnt make you feel this way. [/quote]

And here, my friends, we have a peek into the mind of a serial divorcee/spinster. Bad phone conversation = divorce.

The OP didn't win her husband in a raffle, did she? Supposedly they fell in love and actually liked each other at one point. So take a deep breath and give him the benefit of the doubt.  I was beginning to think the OP was a troll until I read how many other posters, like PP, agreed with her and I realized how kooky some women (people?) really are.

OP, your responses are knee-jerk defensive and irrational. Do some yoga, take a hot bath, relax. Then take a hard look at yourself.

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I would rather be a serial divorcee than be stuck in a marriage with someone who is emotionally stunted and unable to have a supportive phone call when I am in pain.  But that's just me.

Or an abusive relationship, verbal or otherwise.  And since you dont know the OP's history, you cannot say she is not being abused.

Than again, you sound like the emotionally stunted type, so I can understand why it's in your interest that either people accept an emotionally crippled person as their spouse or else end up totally alone.  What a great little scare tactic. [/quote]

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