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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Actions speak louder than words. Does he do the same? Is there junk food in the closet? Does he eat wing and nachos while he downs a beer watching TV or does he make a nice salad on Saturday and ask her to go for a hike? Does he go to happy hour with friend or does he come home to help with the children?

Is he willing to go for a walk with her 3 days a week to help her be motivated and build their relationship or does he judge her, buy her yoga clothes and a gym membership and call it a day.

Lots of people can pay lip service to a problem and throw money at it but how many are actually vested in being part of the solution.[/quote]
Do you have ANY suggestions for OP's wife or are you putting the entire solution on him. If she isn't motivated to do the work, then nothing is going to happen. It's very telling that you seem to blame OP for everything. Are you in the same situation as his DW? Seems like it. [/quote]

Op is the one asking what can be done.  People are telling him what he can do to help her.  Cook and eat some tasty low carbs meals and give her 15 minutes to walk around the block.  Let her sleep in one weekend morning.

She will either be responsive to his help and it'll kick her into gear.  Or she'll decide that she doesn't want to deal with his help.  But this whole "You are sooo Fat and Lazy!" crap is 100% counterproductive - that is no way to treat the mother of your children and the woman that you married.  [/quote]

Did he say he wouldn't do any of that?  You're acting insane.[/quote]

Ugh, no.  Read what the other posters were saying.  Context is important.[/quote]

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