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[quote=Anonymous]This was in yesterday's Wash Post but could easily fit into the relationship portion of this site:

My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years recently said our relationship is slowing due to my inability to challenge him. He thinks my job, one that will allow me to move cross-country for him soon, does not offer opportunities for my professional growth, and therefore our growth.

My life primarily revolves around family and small social circles at work and church. When I visit him, we do his things and hang out with his friends. I know our dynamic will change once I move there, but it has been stressful long-distance. I want to challenge him and grow. What do you suggest?

Stunted

He just said: “For me to want you, you need to improve.” And you just labeled yourself “Stunted.” So painful.

If you like your family, small social circles and job, then I urge you to keep them — and lose the critic dressed as your boyfriend. Grow into liking yourself.

To all: Has this setup ever had a happy ending? Please share stories.[/quote]

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