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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't wrap my head around how you mention again that you and DH have to go for a run. It's a visit to see his parents , you don't see them all the time. You need to reframe this as YOU doing all YOU can to facilitate a great visit for them , and your children , including bending over backwards to make sure your children are appropriate , well behaved and pleasant for your inlaws. You have children now , your needs are secondary and you should be making your focus on the children and grandparents relationship , not trying to thrust your obligations on them . [/quote] OP has said nothing to indicate she is doing otherwise. I think anyone who has traveled with little kids can sympathize.[/quote]
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