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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your basic problem is you want somebody with LD (low desire) to [b]jump your bones[/b].
That's like wanting somebody who doesn't care much about art to conceive/plan/execute a trip to the museum.
It's just not gonna happen!!! Or if it does, it will be rare enough to frustrate a genuine art fan.

You need to re-adjust your expectations. Discard the need for her to first show active desire for sex.
This (her desire) is not very important anyway. What IS important is that [u]she actually has regular sex with you[/u].
It's like the old saying: 3 frogs sit on a rock, 1 decides to jump off, how many are left? (answer: 3)

It's the [u]having sex[/u] part that is key, not the [u]wanting to jump your bones[/u].

I bet your DW would not, and could not, agree to [u]want to[/u] jump your bones.
But I also bet your DW would agree to sex twice per week (or pick a number) if YOU do the initiating.
Trust me this can work out well for both of you. 
She will be [u]jumping your bones[/u], although the idea never even occurred to her first.
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This is fine as long as you are ok with your spouse not actually desiring to have sex with you.  If you flipped genders, and the man had no desire to have sex with his wife, but was willing to service her with a dildo if she really needed it, I doubt most people would call this some type of win-win.  Better than nothing, probably.[/quote]

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