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[quote=Anonymous]Op reading your responses makes me really upset. You are clearly in an abusive relationship and have become so down on yourself that you can't think clearly. He is telling you that you aren't "enough" and no matter what you do it's not good enough.
This sounds exactly like my ex. he talked down to me and made me feel like a worthless piece if shit. When someone treats you like this long enough- you really start to believe them. 
He is destroying yourself esteem. Please get to a therapist and realize that his issues of being not happy are related to something being majorly wrong with him. Does he have a messed up childhood? Divorced parents? My ex was a narcissistic perfectionist sex addict stemming from a bad childhood and abandonment issues. This guy sounds just like him. You will never be good enough no matter what you do and he will constantly gaslight you to make you feel like everything is your fault.

A good therapist will help you realize what an asshole you are married to. Please do this. You deserve so much better than feeling like this. I would be proactive and think about how YOU are going to leave him, not vice versa.[/quote]

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