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[quote=Anonymous]Oh and to the PP who went into detail about the school aged children's need, Jesus, seeing it in words... I think I need to relax, take a deep breath and just have this discussion with DH. I need to know what is a good compromise though. Is the consensus what he is doing is acceptable from now on because after the next few years his flexibility will be a necessity? Would hiring someone (extra hands, house keeping, nanny/driver) to fill the gap would be better than having him adjust to being at home more and scaling back even more? I don't want this conversation to end badly so I want to adjust my expectations. Or should I let it ride until we get to counseling and have this discussion then? I think I can't have the gifts discussion now, but I'm not sure how the other things will go over. He gets very defensive when he perceives criticism and it always results in arguing, hence I've taken on a smile and nod response. [/quote]
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