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Another wife here. This was exactly the thought process I went through, and decided I didn't want my H having sex with me out of duty.  An affair made so much sense.  I became calmer because I was being desired and receiving physical pleasure and H was much less tense around me, knowing I wouldn't push him for sex more than every week or ten days.[/quote]

There are seriously men out there that don't want to have sex with their wives?

What are their reasoning?

I can see if DW gained a lot of weight and isn't sexy anymore.  But if DW stayed in decent shape and had a high sex drive, why the hell wouldn't a man not want to be in his DW all the time?

As a man I can't imagine not having a sex drive.  That would scare me and I'd be at the Dr. quick fast.[/quote]
Not every condition can be fixed. My DH used to have a healthy sex drive. It quickly tanked after our son was born.  Now he's four, we had sex no more than a handful of times since then, and he has been diagnosed with MS.  Little feeling down there, nervous connections underlying orgasm are damaged. Sex just doesn't happen any more. I'm constantly horny, angry and bitter that my sex life, if I want to stay in the marriage and maintain my integrity - and I do - is over. I'm 41.

And you know what, I cannot guarantee that at some point the need for sexual release will not override the good-wife, good-mother business.  I am alive. I am human. What I want matters too.[/quote]

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