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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I'm single and dating and trying to figure it all out. I am torn between kindness, generosity and integrity but, damn, if the sex is bad can you stand to stay married?[/quote]

And that's where it gets complicated. Men and women are willing to forego sexual compatibility because they found "other qualities" they deem good for a spouse.

This retarded line of thinking is why men think there's the woman you date and the woman you marry. 
This retarded line of thinking is why women say they want a nice guy but still lust after the "bad boy."

So, when you talk about what makes a great husband, besides personality traits, you best include sexual things that are important to YOU, lest you become another DCUM statistic: "My husband/wife won't go down on me..." (Pick whichever sexual act you prefer and you get the idea). [/quote]

I agree somewhat. But there is a difference between one spouse not wanting sex vs not wanting to do a specific sex act.
i do not like doing oral, and never did when we dated. DH married me anyway bc he liked the whole package. The funny thing is that we both like to recieve oral but do not really like to give it. So we do not do oral. We have sex and everything else is great in our relationship. The question is, do you give up a great relationship SIMPLY for a specific sex act? Mature people will not. (Again, we are NOT talking about a sexless marriage, but a happy one.)[/quote]

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