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[quote=Anonymous]Wow, OP, I can really relate.  My DH had that hard shell when we fell in love, too, but he let me in, and I never felt the cold sharpness of it from the receiving end.  I saw someone who had been hurt by the world and undervalued by the people closest to him, and I was flattered that he let me in beyond his walls.  Once we were married though (and we're less than 2 years married now) he shut me out more and more.  It's the little things like you mention that add up...any compliment I give him goes nowhere ("That was a delicious dinner" "Of course it was"...), there are no compliments my way - none - he never smiles when I come in the room, he can't say anything nice about anything, he won't allow me to do anything for him like bring him a drink.  Literally, I will be in the kitchen and ask can I bring him anythjng, he'll say no, and a minute later get up and get his own drink.  Nothing I can do can bring him the slightest pleasure.  It's exhausting and demoralizing.

On the other hand, he barely stops doing housework all day and our toddler adores him.  Everyone thinks he's such a great husband, but I fear unless he changes pretty dramatically, I can't imagine sharing a home with someone who just seems to dislike me so fully.[/quote]

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