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[quote=Anonymous]Another guy with somewhat of a different take.

First, I agree that you don't want to look in bars.  Frankly, unless you are going to a sports bar or a comfortable dive, you're not likely to find too many men, except married ones or ones on a date.  Single guys don't hang out in the common bars unless they're on a date.  As some have suggested, you can look for men in sports, but be aware that if you do, you should be prepared to take a lifelong interest in sports or perhaps be a sports widow.

Instead what you need to do is cultivate some interests that are of interest to you and to men.  For example, men are competitive in more ways than sports.  So, you may find some that are fanatics for various card games (poker is the easiest to find).  Look for trivia nights.  There are several places that host regular trivia nights, either trivia competitions or those console games.  There are games clubs around the area and they are frequently heavily male.  There's a very active science fiction community around and you can find a lot of men there, albeit this is the hangout of a lot of geeky guys.  Not just the guys with broken glasses who live in their parents' basement, but normal intellectual types that happen to like science and science fiction, probably work in sciences, engineering or IT.

Another earlier tip that I'll agree with, try not to hang out with so many of your girlfriends at once.  Many men find attractive females intimidating.  It's easier to approach a woman who is solo or in a small group (2 or 3).  Once you get 4+ women together (for some 3+ women), then a lot of men will not approach.  All it takes is one woman who thinks she's all that and better than the average Joe, and the group becomes unapproachable.  Without knowing the personality of the women in the group, most men will write the women off without even approaching.  So basically you are writing off dating, being approached or even being invited for a drink if you are in a group of 3+ or 4+.  So, if you are interested in meeting men, consider changing your methods of "hanging out."[/quote]

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