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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] [/quote] The part I don't understand is how do they think other people do it? Do they really think they've been dealt a crap hand and everyone in their life is a horrible human out to get them? Do they not realize that most people are not estranged from all their family members and long-time friends? That's the deal with the borderline in my life and I just don't understand how she doesn't see that there's a problem.[/quote] [b]You also don't understand that their reality is different than yours.[/b] They don't/can't see things the same way as someone without the disorder. Their brains don't work the same way. I wonder if some are thinking they know people with borderline personality disorder when the actual problem is something else. Bipolar, severe depression, sociopathy even. [/quote] Yes, in my case my reality is different -- because you don't have any idea from the outside what the dynamic was within my family. You would see the abuser as a great person and member of the community. You would not see the abuse. So you would think it odd that I cut off my family "for no reason." But you would be wrong....[/quote]
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