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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree, which is why I'm having a hard time dealing with it now.  I'm sure it will happen again, as we settle back into married life and get comfortable.  That is always in the back of my mind.  It's not how I want to live.[/quote]

Hi. I am dealing with this. Just found out. Married 16 years, 2 kids (6 and 8). I'm Very fit, get hit on at gym, etc. still have sex. I work. This is not about me.

Husband had 3  '3 dates' with online women in the last 3 weeks. One woman it went nowhere. 2nd woman 2 dates. He swears no sexual intercourse.

Immediately went to counseling.  We've had 3 sessions.

He is willing to work on things, but at week one--knowing my personality-- I know I will never have trust again.  I know that about myself.

I've lost 7 lbs in 7 days and I'm barely holding it together. I haven't told anyone because of kids and because I don't know what I want to do.

This majorly sucks .  The deception about getting a dating account and meeting behind my back probably when I was shuttling kids to sports practices and worrying about what to cook for dinner ....

I don't know how I will believe anything. Counselor feels he is honest, wants to work,,, I tend to think once you've done this shit and crossed the line-- it's just a matter of time.[/quote]

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