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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You know, it is a stereotype that chess nerds are all well mannered, respectful, etc. especially in the awkward teen years. There are plenty of intellectually arrogant people, especially in adolescence, and that can make a guy hard to approach or difficult to spend time with.

And then a lot of quite nice chess guy types have a too defeatist attitude, referring to themselves as betas, griping about some other guys life over there instead of enjoying their own lives and appreciating their own good qualities. Or assuming defeat without trying, or only valuing a woman by physical appearance without knowing anything about her actual self. I broke up with a guy over these issues once. He talked himself out of things, and seemed to assume my looks were as important to me as to him. He was too deep in this rut to take a different perspective.

Never was interested in jocks, but as a married mom, I note that a lot of dads who seem really great appear to have jock backgrounds.[/quote]

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