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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it sounds to me like you are an MRA troll, but I'll take you at face value:

The reason this is a false dichotomy is that there is no one standing there determining whether an individual guy is a jerk or a nice guy.  The MRA theory is that women OWE sex to men who are "nice"--men who feign friendship in an attempt to obtain sexual attention.  Would you rather have sex with someone who is interested in you sexually and says so (and who may be very nice TO YOU at least in the early stages, even if a bitter "nice guy" MRA would decide from the outside that he is attractive and therefore a jerk), or with someone who is attracted to you sexually, but pretends to be interested in you as a person while being judgemental about anyone in whom you express interest?  MRAs believe that women aren't real people with a variety of needs and desires who are entitled to make their own romantic and sexual decisions.  Instead, they treat women as stupid, one-dimensional caricatures who need a "good" man (by which MRAs mean "someone like me") to make their choices for them.  Any woman who is attracted based on physical factors is a slut and a bitch.  Women should take attention from men who have nothing else toing on but the fact that they are "nice"--aggressively and possesively--and be grateful.[/quote]

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