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[quote=Anonymous]I used to judge my sister like you OP because she seemed to have some poor judgment in a few areas of her life. I didn't share my opinions with her but sisters definitely can pick up on judgment from each other even if no words are exchanged. She continued as she felt the need, carried on with life, and now she's a huge success. Of course, I want marriage and long term stability for her in her personal life because I want her to be happy, but sometimes I think as the older sister, we see the younger one going through a phase that we've just come out of, we know the risks and pain it entails, and we just want to shake them and say - you don't have to do this to yourself! - but our little sisters aren't younger versions of us. They're their own people, their mistakes may or may not have anything to do with our own worries and regrets. I think you're projecting a lot onto her that you wish you could say to yourself.

Just let your sister be for now. She's not in crisis. She's made a decision and plan with her husband that works for them for now. When it stops working, I'm sure they'll sort something else out. [/quote]

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