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[quote=Anonymous]Sexless PP here.  Here’s my take.

I am not the type of guy who chases pvssy, and my DW knows that.  If I stray, I am 100% at fault for banging someone else.  Absolutely.  Am I solely at fault because my marriage deteriorated to the point that I felt that I needed to stray to get my needs met (especially when I was vocal about those needs)?  We can argue back and forth all day on that.   So….in order to get back in good standing (and rebuild trust) in a marriage that I was unfulfilled in, I need to give DW even more power than she had when she decided that we would be darn near celibate?  I will readily admit that I messed up and I will give my reasons why.  If she wants to work it out, we can seek counseling and determine the best way to do it.  But I am not going to be a prisoner in my own house and my own marriage.  Now, if my DW wanted us BOTH to give up access to passwords as part of a new marital open book policy, then that might work.  I am not going to kowtow to her demands to rebuild something that most of you are saying cannot be totally rebuilt. 
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