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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What makes a formerly friendly brother suddenly distant with no explanation? Does his wife (the sil) force him not to explain the sudden change in behavior? Why? And how could he do so without knowing how it hurts those who love him? And how can the sil sit back and let this happen to her children's grandparents/aunts/uncles?[/quote]

That's easy.

OP/sister is a controlling bitch who was accustomed to using him for free child care services and now the new SIL has put an end to this convenient arrangement and OP doesn't like it one little bit.  OP's obvious hostility to the SIL probably screams out loud and clear in person and sil doesn't like it so she is minimizing the brother's time with OP, and of course, since Sil plays the "v" card OP has nothing with which she can compete for the brother's attention.[/quote]

so, brothers will treat their former crap family like crap once sex is no the table. got it. but what about former family that was actually pretty cool? that's the instance here.

I'm not op. All I got from her post was that she was upset that her relationship with her brother has been altered. so she's upset. I think it's fair that she can be upset, so she's venting here. she has not said that she treated the sil badly. she has not said that she expects her brother to continue babysitting for free. in fact, she mentioned babysitting-swapping. the fury to the op escalated based on other people's poor relationships, not on what op said. give her a break.[/quote]

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