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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]There is nothing wrong wrt lunch with the opposite sex. I work in a male dominating field (IT Security); and over the course of several years I have made several lunch buddy friends; male co-workers of all ages from 35 years older to 5 years younger. I would NEVER think to having an affair with these men.[/quote]

You do realize, don't you, that every single one of your male friends wants to fuck you?   You sound like one of those faux-naive teases--you go out to lunch with these IT nerds just loving up all the male attention you are getting, knowing you can keep them at arms' length, and pretend what you are doing is completely innocent.

Whether or not you actually ever have an affair is simply a matter of circumstances.  Denying that you love all the male attention you are getting is simply  not credible.

[quote]Now, the 9PM coffee meeting is inappropriate. I would never meet one of my lunch buddies (nor any male co-worker) in the evening (or after work) unless it was a company happy hour with many other co-workers present.[/quote]

Why is having coffee inappropriate if as you say you would "NEVER" have sex with any of your work colleagues and it's not on anyone's mind at all?  If they are just your work friends why COULDN'T you have coffee with them at 9 pm.  You see you just tripped yourself up.  You know what they are thinking.  Having lunch is "safe", or so you think, but don't pretend it's not a huge flirtation.

[quote]Sorry OP, I think your DH has a thing for this woman, and it is inappropriate for him to meet her during evening hours.[/quote]  Why?  I thought you said having opposite sex friends is perfectly fine.  Why is she the hussy, but you are innocent?[/quote]

NP. PP is not a tease. You CAN be friends with a man and it be completely platonic.[/quote]

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