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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are your finances separate or joint? [/quote] Joint[/quote] OP, I'd be angry, too. First of all, my DH and I have firmly agreed we discussing spending large amounts of money -- even on gifts and even if we intend to spend it out of our personal accounts (we have joint and individual). Second of all, it isn't really a "gift," if it came out of your joint account. It was a unilateral decision on his part on how to spend your joint savings. You are definitely not on the same page about spending. And though you don't have to do it in an angry way, you really should discuss it with your husband that it is unacceptable[/quote]
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