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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, are wives expected to have sex no matter what then?  Whenever their husband wants it?

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With in reason, yes. I just had a newborn and can assure you I have no interest in anything sexual right now (cannot have sex yet because still healing from baby). My husband is a wonderful man, so when he was clearly aroused last night, I lovingly kissed him and, um, helped him take care of things.  Women:  sometimes you do these things to be kind and loving and compassionate towards the needs of the wonderful man you married. Whether you are "into it" or "turned on" is sometimes beside the point.  Presumably, I'm going to want to have sex again, but in the mean time I'm certainly not going to ignore my husbands needs!  He, in turn, is kind about responding to my needs. Isn't a great partnership about sometimes doing something you don't feel like simply because you care about the other person's well being?

Also, if you are married to a successful, reasonably attractive man, I think you are deluding yourself if you think he will endure sexlessness/rejection for the long haul without looking elsewhere/straying. Sex and affection are basic human needs ...

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