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[quote=Anonymous]So far, I have seen OP and other commenters outraged that DD will not give access to the grades.  There have been threats about not paying, etc.  Everyone knows that first semester of college is usually when the grades are the worst because of the big adjustment.   It is also the time where kids try hardest to assert independence.  You guys seem intent on making sure that they are not independent.  My question for you all is, if the grades are not up to your standards, how will you handle it?  Berating and threatening a kid who may be overwhelmed can create anxiety and depression issues.

I have two kids in college - one a senior and the other a sophmore.  Both are on academic scholarship.  I ask about classes occasionally, but I live with whatever they tell me.  My requirements for them are simple. (1) Keep your grades high enough to maintain your scholarship because I will not pay full freight and (2) stay on track to graduate on time.  I also tell them that their grades will determine future opportunities and that they will be responsible for their own lifestyle.  Other than that, I do not pester them about what their grades are.  Because of that, they are very comfortable talking to me about their classes and seeking advice.      [/quote]

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