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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Isn't Virginia a "no fault" state for divorce. I don't think there is any state where one can assign fault.  That you had an affair really doesn't matter in terms of settlement, yes? But I'm not a lawyer, which leads me to my advice:

You need to consult a lawyer in VA and get accurate advice. [/quote]

No. Infidelity, abandoning the family, etc. can affect property allocation.

OP, what's up with his request for details? That makes this story sound trollish or like a fetish. Also, talk to an attorney ASAP. [/quote]

Very trollish. Wants details and for her to perform the same acts? Wtf? Fake.[/quote]

Affair or whatever.

I'd tell the DH to take a shit or get off the pot. To tell details and make some sort of stupid sex game out of it, I can see why the wife cheated, the husband sounds like an insecure loser himself.

She's sorry, she fucked up-she knows it. They both need counseling. If he's not a willing partner to try to repair the marriage, just divorce. He sounds sadistic and I'm sure this is nothing new for him. He probably was a jerkoff the entire marriage.[/quote]

Let's be crystal clear about something here: OP is the villain, not her husband.[/quote]

Let's be realistic about something in general: not every story has extremely clear-cut heroes and villains. Sometimes, everyone is the villain, and sometimes, nobody is. You have one side of the story. You are not omnipotent.[/quote]

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