Anonymous wrote:Actually, the most offensive part of OP's post is her whining about having to work at a non-profit with her Ivy League education.

Quelle horreur!

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Anonymous wrote:This isn't real. Gimme a break.

This isn't real? Many wives cheat on their devoted, faithful husbands. It happens all the time. Gyms seem to be pretty popular places for wives finding an OM, too.

The OP's situation seems very plausible and real. Unfortunately, for many such devoted and faithful husbands, it is a bitter and horrifying reality.

Centurion

Please, Centurion, tell us about your bitter and horrifying experience.

Lol

Lol? Well, I've read marriage and relationship forums where men have talked about this happening. I also had a friend who's wife met and fucked some guy she met at the gym. For him it was a very bitter and horrifying experience.

Why would such a situation be "funny" to anyone?

Centurion

It's funny because you knowing one lady who banged some guy at the gym does not show a trend. Women cheating happens, and so does men cheating. This is not a female problem. It's your problem with women and/or your fetish that makes look like an epidemic to you.

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Anonymous wrote:Isn't Virginia a "no fault" state for divorce. I don't think there is any state where one can assign fault. That you had an affair really doesn't matter in terms of settlement, yes? But I'm not a lawyer, which leads me to my advice:

You need to consult a lawyer in VA and get accurate advice.

No. Infidelity, abandoning the family, etc. can affect property allocation.

OP, what's up with his request for details? That makes this story sound trollish or like a fetish. Also, talk to an attorney ASAP.

Very trollish. Wants details and for her to perform the same acts? Wtf? Fake.

Affair or whatever.

I'd tell the DH to take a shit or get off the pot. To tell details and make some sort of stupid sex game out of it, I can see why the wife cheated, the husband sounds like an insecure loser himself.

She's sorry, she fucked up-she knows it. They both need counseling. If he's not a willing partner to try to repair the marriage, just divorce. He sounds sadistic and I'm sure this is nothing new for him. He probably was a jerkoff the entire marriage.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This isn't real. Gimme a break.

This isn't real? Many wives cheat on their devoted, faithful husbands. It happens all the time. Gyms seem to be pretty popular places for wives finding an OM, too.

The OP's situation seems very plausible and real. Unfortunately, for many such devoted and faithful husbands, it is a bitter and horrifying reality.

Centurion

Please, Centurion, tell us about your bitter and horrifying experience.

Lol

Lol? Well, I've read marriage and relationship forums where men have talked about this happening. I also had a friend who's wife met and fucked some guy she met at the gym. For him it was a very bitter and horrifying experience.

Why would such a situation be "funny" to anyone?

Centurion

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Anonymous wrote:Right, it's understandable that the betrayed spouse would think about that, but I don't get why 14:02 enjoys fantasizing about OP (a stranger on the Internet to him) cheating on her husband, with all of the sordid details including positions.

14:02 (centurion) is a sick fuck. He seems like the kind of guy who kills prostitutes. His hate for women just seethes and boils. He's dangerous.

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Anonymous wrote:Isn't Virginia a "no fault" state for divorce. I don't think there is any state where one can assign fault. That you had an affair really doesn't matter in terms of settlement, yes? But I'm not a lawyer, which leads me to my advice:

You need to consult a lawyer in VA and get accurate advice.

No. Infidelity, abandoning the family, etc. can affect property allocation.

OP, what's up with his request for details? That makes this story sound trollish or like a fetish. Also, talk to an attorney ASAP.

Very trollish. Wants details and for her to perform the same acts? Wtf? Fake.

Affair or whatever.

I'd tell the DH to take a shit or get off the pot. To tell details and make some sort of stupid sex game out of it, I can see why the wife cheated, the husband sounds like an insecure loser himself.

She's sorry, she fucked up-she knows it. They both need counseling. If he's not a willing partner to try to repair the marriage, just divorce. He sounds sadistic and I'm sure this is nothing new for him. He probably was a jerkoff the entire marriage.

Let's be crystal clear about something here: OP is the villain, not her husband.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Isn't Virginia a "no fault" state for divorce. I don't think there is any state where one can assign fault. That you had an affair really doesn't matter in terms of settlement, yes? But I'm not a lawyer, which leads me to my advice:

You need to consult a lawyer in VA and get accurate advice.

No. Infidelity, abandoning the family, etc. can affect property allocation.

OP, what's up with his request for details? That makes this story sound trollish or like a fetish. Also, talk to an attorney ASAP.

Very trollish. Wants details and for her to perform the same acts? Wtf? Fake.

Affair or whatever.

I'd tell the DH to take a shit or get off the pot. To tell details and make some sort of stupid sex game out of it, I can see why the wife cheated, the husband sounds like an insecure loser himself.

She's sorry, she fucked up-she knows it. They both need counseling. If he's not a willing partner to try to repair the marriage, just divorce. He sounds sadistic and I'm sure this is nothing new for him. He probably was a jerkoff the entire marriage.

Anonymous wrote:Actually, the most offensive part of OP's post is her whining about having to work at a non-profit with her Ivy League education.

Quelle horreur!

Anonymous wrote:Right, it's understandable that the betrayed spouse would think about that, but I don't get why 14:02 enjoys fantasizing about OP (a stranger on the Internet to him) cheating on her husband, with all of the sordid details including positions.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This isn't real. Gimme a break.

This isn't real? Many wives cheat on their devoted, faithful husbands. It happens all the time. Gyms seem to be pretty popular places for wives finding an OM, too.

The OP's situation seems very plausible and real. Unfortunately, for many such devoted and faithful husbands, it is a bitter and horrifying reality.

Centurion

Please, Centurion, tell us about your bitter and horrifying experience.

Lol

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Isn't Virginia a "no fault" state for divorce. I don't think there is any state where one can assign fault. That you had an affair really doesn't matter in terms of settlement, yes? But I'm not a lawyer, which leads me to my advice:

You need to consult a lawyer in VA and get accurate advice.

No. Infidelity, abandoning the family, etc. can affect property allocation.

OP, what's up with his request for details? That makes this story sound trollish or like a fetish. Also, talk to an attorney ASAP.

Very trollish. Wants details and for her to perform the same acts? Wtf? Fake.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This isn't real. Gimme a break.

This isn't real? Many wives cheat on their devoted, faithful husbands. It happens all the time. Gyms seem to be pretty popular places for wives finding an OM, too.

The OP's situation seems very plausible and real. Unfortunately, for many such devoted and faithful husbands, it is a bitter and horrifying reality.

Centurion

Please, Centurion, tell us about your bitter and horrifying experience.