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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I am 26 and don't have a magic ball to predict someones actions, by that I meant her actions[/b]. But I am in charge of my own, so I have some heavy decisions to make. I thank you all for the postive and negative comments, all are constructive critism that are beneficial in many ways. [/quote] OP, not to harp on this, because I think you've clearly gotten the point, but a little more about this statement, as I think it should be part of your reflection. You don't need a magic ball to predict someone's actions. You need maturity, experience and emphathy; all of those are clearly lacking here. The fact that you would even make a statement like this says a lot to your older sisters on DCUM. You (and your BF) are behaving as though actions have no consequences, people can say and do whatever they want, and "other people" (in this case, the ex) will react however they want to, in no way as a reflection of those actions. Think about it, please. You and your BF -- primarily your BF, but you went along for the ride -- messed up royally here. The ex found out about it. I'm sure she's had her own piece of these problems, but her reaction was not unreasonable. [/quote]
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