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[quote=Anonymous]NP. Find a new guardian. I would not want this to be the role model for my kids.

And seriously consider your friends, especially those with kids the same age as yours.  You are asking someone to take on this role if something catastrophic happens to both you and DH suddenly and at the same time (otherwise you will have a chance to reevaluate under the new circumstances) - the odds of which are actually quite small, and in the face of which good people are honestly willing to step up. And adding your kids would be easiest for a family with same age kids.  From your post I get the impression your kids may be young / at the stage where more kids is harder, but as they get older, having same age playmates / kids on the same school/activity schedule is easier.

Obviously money is a considerations, but if you have the life insurance / trusts set up to provide for your kids financial needs, then seriously consider your friends who would best be prepared to provide the emotional needs.[/quote]

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