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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok ill admit smart is on my list but as I get older I realize in general that just being easy to be around is much more rewarding on a daily basis.

My current GF went to a top tier school and has a great professional gig.

But would I be less attracted to her if she went to a mid range school and had ten less IQ points?  I don't think so

That's be awfully shallow of me!

When you make lists the longer they get the more useless they are.   Being nice warm and wanting to make a home seem to be at the top of mine.

Kill me for wanting a nice girl!

I quoted the oft repeated list of the four sixes here as a way to mock them actually.

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Yes, we know all about your GF. Going to top school (in the USA) and having a good professional gig hardly suggests anything than average intelligence. Which is fine, just stop trying to prove she "has it all" where she clearly doesn't.

Also, your nice girlfriend accepts that you sleep with other women while she sits at home hoping you will give her more children. That arrangeent is going well beyond being nice and sweet into a sick, submissive attitude that very few men want. You are simply in no position to pronounce on dating universals here because what you have is totally creepy and of no interest to anyone.[/quote]

What is your age and marital status by the way? Lets gets some perspective on your perspective.[/quote]

I am 40, married for 17 years, with 2 children. Any other questions?[/quote]

well that makes more sense now.

you've been removed from the dating market since the 90's!

no wonder you have no idea whats going on out there.

and even when you did date it wasn't for that long.

good for you, however.  I think marrying younger is better than marrying older (for a woman) and i'm sure you have a happy sane marriage which is what a lot of people desire.

But to listen to a middle aged mom whose been married since the 90's talk about the dating markets today is really silly.

Good to know!

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yes, i have been removed from the dating market for years, though several people close to me are in the trenches so i am by no means clueless as to what is going on.

most people on the dating market - and certainly a vast majority of women - want to get off the market, as soon as possible, and never go back. i have succeeded in exactly that. you, on the other hand, at 37, with 3 kids by 2 different women, still working on your lists, still optimizing your prospects and still dating around with the approval of your "current girlfriend" with whom you plan more children, are a dating failure. you supposedly know all about the process, but the bottom line is, your results are dismal and almost nobody - virtually no women, and very few men, want to be where you are. people want to stop dating so that they can live their lives, while for you, dating is apparently a permanent part of life (or at least it will be till you conclude through one of your nebulous analyses that you are better of settling). therefore, even a "middle aged mom" (who also happens to be a psychologist) has to offer more useful advice than you.[/quote]

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