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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Lots of great ideas. Thanks. I will certainly try some of them.

Wife has minor physical issues. Dryness is one of them. We should make the effort to lube more often, but she doesnt like it for some reason.
Can someone explain why? she would love more intimacy while watching tv or something so i will do that. It will help an hour later when we are in bed. The problem is that if I do that, I will want it right away, not 1 hour later.

We are both very much attracted to each other. So even bad sex feels great to me most of the time.

She was raised to think sex is bad. This is difficult to overcome. She is very quiet and submissive. I've gotten used to this. At this point, I prefer to be in charge. I do feel like I am masturbating with her as a prop sometimes. Sounds terrible but it's not so bad really. It is a compromise that works for us.

Another idea I like is to watch romantic porn together. She doesnt lke the regular porn that I've showed her. With kids in the house it is harder to execute some of these ideas.

She is busy with work, children, friends, and many other things. So she is often tired at night. I wish she would focus less on others and more on me. [b]I could also be an ass and threaten her to try harder or I will look elsewhere. But I suppose that is an underlying threat in every marriage... Be better to me or else...  But I am trying to compromise and not be a dictator.[/b]

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OMG.  So sad to me to know that men think this way.

You're not a dictator, just a dick.[/quote]

SERIOUSLY. OP's wife has a full life with family, friends, work, etc. and a husband who she does actually have sex with (so it's not a sexless marriage), but the OP is sad that she won't pay enough attention to him and that she doesn't have sex the way he wants her to have sex, and has actually considered threatening to have an affair to get her to have sex with him the way he wants.

...while he also brags about how she lets him do whatever he wants.[/quote]

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