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It's sexist but unfortunately true in my (admittedly limited) experience. Think about how many couples you know URL and posts you see on here where the problem is that the male half wants more sex and the female half would rather go to bed with a good book :)

I'm not exempting myself btw. We have the same issue. In my case though I make it a rule to initiate 2x a week because he gets too grumpy otherwise. But seriously, it's amazing to me what a difference it makes in his mood and how he treats me. I don't know whether I should be happy or depressed about it. (At least I have this effect on him? But if we couldn't gave sex for a long time for some reason, would our marriage be over?)[/quote]

I vote for happy.  Your effort to initiate 2x a week improves your husband's mood because he feels attractive and loved.  Please don't assume that if you couldn't have sex for a long time that your marriage would suffer--your husband could very well deal with a situation outside your control (medical issue, personal grief, stress at work, etc.) that prevented you from being able to have sex.  We're simple creatures, but we're not monsters.
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I cannot find the original quote, but I did try this. However H "does not feel the passion" from me and it takes us nowhere...[/quote]

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