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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Say what you want but the physical connection is very important to a marriage.  And if any person is constantly rebufed and rejected, thing go South in a hurry and resentment and anger just build up. [/quote]

And what about the resentment and anger that build up when one spouse is constantly feeling pressured and having to do something they don't want to do?[/quote]

No selective quoting please.  You ignored my earlier comment in that post where I said there is a middle ground! And there is.  You want to alleviate the pressure from the spouse.  Make a promise and suggest a compromise.  See, MOST reasonable people could deal with getting sex on the regular - even if that "regular" is once or twice a month.  It is the uncertainly coupled with rejection that leads to resentment.  If a DW told her DH "Honey, I am not going to have sex 3 times a week because of all we have going on with the kids, etc. But once or 2x a month, I am going to knock your socks off because you are still desirable and I want to stay connected." Most men and women I know could live with that.

Look at this way, your spouse finds you attractive and desirable.  I have been married for a long time so I may be out of touch, but I did not realize people think that is a problem. [/quote]

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