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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait one minute. You decided to get pregnant, then you had long discussions about what you expected of him. How much buy-in did you get from him? It sounds as if you set yourself up as the kid expert even before birth. It's an ass-clown thing to take it out on the kid, but when you treat someone like a child, you often provoke yet more childish behaviour. [/quote] Where did she say he didn't want to get pregnant? I had these same long conversations with my DH. He was the one who really wanted children, and I was ambivalent because I did not want to do all the drudge work, which I had a much better idea about than he did. We agreed before #1 came that we would both be doing all the work together. I didn't see this as "treating him like a child." It was "protecting my interests."[/quote]
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