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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would not go. You now know more about her as a person and that may shape for sure how you see her as a friend. You know that she lies, cheats, betrays, deceives. You now know she doesn't have the integrity of character you thought she did. That is going to influence how you see her as a friend. 
I wouldn't go and watch her act like she cared about her husband when you know she is fucking other men behind his back. It you go and play along, that is really the same as supporting her in having the affair.

Personally I would tell her I can't keep that a secret from my husband - and i would tell her she needed to tell her husband or I would. I think people have a right to know if there are more than 2 people in their marriage. What they decide to do about it is up to them. [/quote]

Ditto.   Have a "friend" that recently confided something similar.  I'm not a prude and understand  marriage is complicated, but I was amazed at how totally callous she sounded and completely unaffected about how her cheating affected her family and two small children.  I tried to keep an open mind but each conversation really revealed her true colors.  Someone not to be trusted -as wife or friend.  Needless to say, I've basically avoided her. [/quote]

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