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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]i am going ot bookmark this thread for the nexttime there is post about a man cheating. I am sure that on that thread there will be the equivalent amount of:

-he just made a mistake and everyone makes mistakes
-it is wrong to judge him, no one is perfect
-it shouldn't make a difference in how you see him
-he can still be an amazing person even though he had this little slip up, Don't hold this against him.
-you should still enjoy your time out with him and his wife. Just pretend to the wife like all is well.
-if you judge him or judge his actions as wrong you are a bitch and a terrible person.
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It's unlikely that the man would be a close friend. This is not about a man and a woman but about friends.[/quote]

Why can't men be close friends? That doesn't make sense. Lots of men have close friends. And people were saying this about the friends actions - not just about the friendship. But even if you say this is just about friends - have you read the dozens of posts where people say my friend did x,y,z. People then judge x,y,z like crazy and will say 'ditch' her or distance yourself or this friendship is trouble.... Poster have absolutely no problems not being loyal to the friendship and judging their friends actions, or the actions of poster's friends. [/quote]

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