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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]His wife left him because he got angry with her and hit the daughter hard enough to make her mouth start bleeding...just to get back at his wife. He was cruel. Is being an abusive monster is a mental illness? [/quote]

I didn't say mentally ill people can't also be assholes. This guy did not kill himself to piss off his wife. And if he did, that would itself be extremely compelling evidence he was mentally ill.[/quote]

Actually, suicide is often used as a punishment by abusers. They get off on making the thought that their spouse will suffer and be judged harshly as a result of their suicide.  Sylvia Plath was punishing her husband with her death.[/quote]

Sylvia Plath died by putting her head into an oven.  You think she was willing to endure that kind of pain in order to end her life to "punish" a man who didn't care about her?  Interesting.

You know what, people?  There is no law, moral, or ethic requiring you to do anything in the face of what all of you are calling suicide "threats".  It is obvious that you do not care as to whether the person issuing the threats lives or dies.  You simply find the accurately suicidal to be inconvenient manipulators who want to punish you.  So just walk away and tell them to stay away from you.  Let whatever happens to them happen.  It need not be your problem.  But let's not pretend that you are "caring" by calling 911, because you don't.  You are trying to punish the person.  It's precipitous to get a restraining order.  If they continue to bother you, that is the time to consider that.

Just leave.  Go.  Stop complaining about how evil the suicidal person is.  You have much better things to do.

If and when you get to that dark place, I hope people are just as understanding of you as you were of others.[/quote]

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